There's this girl I know....
I sometimes wonder what really occurred the day man was created. I am well aware about the beautiful story of creation. A story that can only be truthfully told by the Author Himself-God. His intentions of creating something so beautiful, marvels me. Man was perfect. Then He created woman. A being so magnificent, fathoming would be an understatement.
What would men be like today if temptation didn't get the best of our good friend Adam? Some say it was because of Eve and that Adam fell short of her beauty, dragging him along into the depths of sin warned by God. Could we be the reason men are the way they are? Or are they just simply... one rib short of a brain? There are two types of men that I can't stand the most :1. Mister shallow and 2. the game player. Define shallow you ask? OK. Shallow would be when a man reduces women to nothing but a slim figure and a pretty face. Simply said. So when does true beauty come in to the picture? When can someone say "shallow" and think only of a pool rather than men? When will it be ok to call a guy and NOT wait for his call just to see if he's "still interested"? I say screw the rules. Call him, text him, let him know your still there... and your on the prowl. If he doesn't respond, don't go running to your "He's Just Not That In To You" book and find the reason of this tragedy that best "fits" you. There's nothing wrong with YOU. Snap on your batgirl belt with new tools and a fresh coat of lipgloss and move on. There's nothing like opening your window of love and shouting "NEXT". :) Your in control. Love it.
There's this girl I know. She has a smile that glistens. She used to wear this charm bracelet that chimed when she moved. Thats how I knew when beautiful was around me. She asked me today why men are idiots. I thought for a moment, and giggled to myself. I don't believe men are idiots, or dogs, or from mars. Men are amazing creatures. However, they have been known to lack in the love factory. But so have we. Our problem is, we have been too needy, too clingy and too dingy!! All of those consume us that we forget to love at all. Men like to think they are in control with their little mind games and quirks when really, they are playing themselves and when they realize they have been playing for one, butthurt sets in. Oh, sweet butthurt. The sign that.. they have lost all power!!
As women stop wasting their valuable, beautiful time with "the rules" and dirty games, men are still in the background waiting for YOUR text, waiting for YOUR next move.....waiting for a chase. When we step it up a notch, men take to it. A women's intiminations and independence are thriving in the dating world today. Men aren't idiots, they just don't know a good thing when they see it, ecspecially if its a man who just doesn't quite know what good is, and you my friend, are a good thing. Woman are the recipe of love. We just have to get these men to taste everything, and not just what looks good. Today is the day when YOU decide " your just... not...that... in to him" :) and if you are, then make your move. Don't give control, when you have it all.
Be a lioness.... and eat a cupcake :)
THis is a hard situation to debate. I see both ways. I would love to tell her to eat a "reality" cupcake and move on, but... at the same time, its not that easy. I ate the "reality" cupcake, but I have also eaten the "love" ones too and let the guy get away with his cheating. I wish upon everyone that they didnt have to go through what I went through, but everyone goes through it whether they like it or not. Then the question arises... "Is it better not to Love or Love, then Lost..." Well, I would honeslty say its better not to love, but if you do that, then you will never know what it feels like to love. So... I dont know that I can advice to something thats seems so simple. I do know that she should eat the "patience" cupcake because her romeo will come. She might have to go through hurt after hurt, but... its ok. She mine as well keep eating the "love" cupcakes and then throw in the "patience" one and through in a little prayer because her Romeo is out there, but she will never know if she keeps thinking cheating is ok and never stops to be patient and chill out. I also agree about the two types of men, but i also know that the player will most likely turn out good when he fines the love of his life. I am a prime example of this and I am glad that he got his play time out of the way, so now he can focus on me. SO as much as we want to hate the player, we mine as well love it for now. Cause its better for him to play now, then play when he has his wife. So.... Raise your cupcake to patience and love.
ReplyDeleteThank you lova! Hehe. Loved it! I look forward to more blogs my little writer. Hehe. Love you girlie!
ReplyDeleteYou Welcome! Im just preparing the world for us, so when we become STARS, people wont be shocked! Love you and cant wait for the OCTOBER RETREAT! We should make each months retreat a theme! It would be fun!
ReplyDelete:) You both make my heart go bippity boppity boo!!!
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