No, not me. A very close friend of mine. "Hey guess what? I got laid". That was the text he sent me late last night. I have known him for eight years and he was my only virgin friend left on this planet. He was always picked on for his choices to wait for someone he loved. Not by me. I loved that about him. He is a goofy, witty and super good looking. If you google Stefano from this seasons American Idol, you will know what I'm talking about. They are identical.
Okay so I'm just gonna say it. I made the decision when I was younger to wait on doing the " great bambino" with someone until I was married. I am 28 and I'm still holding strong. There, now all of OS knows. It's cool. I think? It's really not that bad since I don't "crave" it like some people do after they do it a couple times. Well, so I've been told. I have been asked all kinds of questions and I have collected many pennies for when people tell me " yeah right, noone is a virgin anymore". So, I'm rich by the way. haha.
My friend and I would always talk about it and kind of make fun of ourselves.. with all respect of course. We wondered how old we would both be when we "hit the jackpot" and.. I'm not talkin about money. I JUST talked to him last week- then a virgin.. then BAM now he's been ... um... laid?? Do we still refer to sex as getting "laid" Why? Does anyone take it serious anymore? Or is it just me and all the other 20 something year old virgins sneaking up on 30? Goodness.
I spoke with him this morning and I totally expressed my feelings about him just going and doing whomever. Yeah, to each their own. Some people wait and others don't and that's okay. Really. However, he had such great intentions on waiting for the woman he truely loved. I knew him better than that. I asked him why he took the plunge and he replied " well, I really wanted to wait for someone I loved, but it never happened so I said screw it and just went out and did it".
WHAT??? Just like that?
Sigh. Crazy guy.
I don't know if I'm more disappointed in the fact that he was so whateve about it or that he totally, sneakly beat me to the punch. Haha.
Now what will we talk about?
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